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minus-squareBerengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up16·2 months agoPart of me regrets not transitioning already, but then my kids probably wouldn’t exist if I had.
minus-squareexplodicle@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·2 months agoKids are fantastic at eliminating regret for things you did decades ago. If you’d “fixed” nearly anything, they’d be different people instead. You just gotta be a good enough parent now that you don’t create whole new regrets.
minus-squareBerengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·2 months agoWell i try my best, but it takes a village to raise just one child. Unfortunately it takes just one shitty parent to fuck up all that hard work and there are some choice examples at my kids school.
Part of me regrets not transitioning already, but then my kids probably wouldn’t exist if I had.
Kids are fantastic at eliminating regret for things you did decades ago. If you’d “fixed” nearly anything, they’d be different people instead.
You just gotta be a good enough parent now that you don’t create whole new regrets.
Well i try my best, but it takes a village to raise just one child. Unfortunately it takes just one shitty parent to fuck up all that hard work and there are some choice examples at my kids school.