• maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 months ago

    hm? oh - nonononono, i jus realized that bout myself, thar i wana be nicer tp be around.,… any that thats prolli the reason there r few peeps around me,

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      4 months ago

      Well it took you one sentence to achieve more more self-awareness than this Fuentes guy has in all his 27 years, congrats

    • cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.comBanned from community
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      4 months ago

      But ‘nice’ is not a binary. Smells that might attract adorable puppies might not be so flattering in the eyes of a potential lover.

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          4 months ago

          You have more self awareness than most people today. If you feel like you need to be nicer to the people around you then I say go for it. We need all the positive energy we can get in this world and age and we need to treat each other better if we want a better society.

        • cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.comBanned from community
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          4 months ago

          I can’t imagine it’s that bad, but I bet being generally comfier to be around will make you way worse to be around for this chud.

    • Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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      4 months ago

      Maybe I’m just projecting here (I almost definitely am) but if you grow up pushing your peers away as a defence mechanism, it becomes very easy to keep doing that as an adult, especially if you didn’t realize that you were doing it to begin with.

      Its a hard path once you’ve realized this and want to improve it about yourself, but its a very rewarding path to take. I wish you luck on this new journey that you’re undertaking!