I’m pro transit but someone hornyposting to the world is NOT an invitation to a real world interaction. Thinking otherwise is called parasocial. You’re interacting directly with someone who doesn’t know you exist.
I presume it goes: hornypost > flirtatious comment exchange > DM > train ride
Also, I don’t think it’s meant to be taken seriously.
Although if you (generic persons, not specifically targeted at the person i’m replying to) see me hornyposting and somehow live within visiting distance, feel free to hmu. I’m in an open relationship and generally down to try new things 😝
we need geotags to our user accounts (voluntarily only ofc) sothat we can navigate real world more efficiently, and maybe do a database query (SELECT*FROM cuties WHERE distance_to_me <50 km;)
For one - it’s a meme and not meant to be serious.
But also the point is that assuming that someone does or doesn’t want something like this is flawed. Which is why you don’t assume, you ask. You express a little bit of interest and see if the other person engages/escalates.
Agreed, communication and consent are way up there at the top. I don’t think we disagree. I just understand human behavior to not adhere any such norms. People gonna be weird and rapey, you know
I’m pro transit but someone hornyposting to the world is NOT an invitation to a real world interaction. Thinking otherwise is called parasocial. You’re interacting directly with someone who doesn’t know you exist.
I presume it goes: hornypost > flirtatious comment exchange > DM > train ride
Also, I don’t think it’s meant to be taken seriously.
Although if you (generic persons, not specifically targeted at the person i’m replying to) see me hornyposting and somehow live within visiting distance, feel free to hmu. I’m in an open relationship and generally down to try new things 😝
You happen to be in Sweden lol?
Not even close 😫
I’m in Central Virginia, USA. Not the worst place to be, but if I had a way to move to the EU i’d take it.
Hey, cool! I used to live on both sides of ya. Lol. Grew up in Hampton Roads, VA. Lived in the tri cities, Tennessee for years and years
I feel like it’s rare to find a lemming anywhere close to where you live, we’re such a small and spread out community
we need geotags to our user accounts (voluntarily only ofc) sothat we can navigate real world more efficiently, and maybe do a database query (
SELECT * FROM cuties WHERE distance_to_me < 50 km;)lived in Davidson and Dickson counties a while! I always forgot “tri cities” means “where i pee on my way back north, just before hitting bristol.”
Va represent. I’m more by the coast than central but still.
How close are you to a VRE station?
A couple hours by car, I think
Perfectly awesome friend, but that is not true for everyone
Well obviously 😅
For one - it’s a meme and not meant to be serious.
But also the point is that assuming that someone does or doesn’t want something like this is flawed. Which is why you don’t assume, you ask. You express a little bit of interest and see if the other person engages/escalates.
Agreed, communication and consent are way up there at the top. I don’t think we disagree. I just understand human behavior to not adhere any such norms. People gonna be weird and rapey, you know
Unfortunately, yeah, people are frequently weird
Sib, 'tis a meme
Emoji! Yes!