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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 9 hours ago

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poly rule

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 9 hours ago
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    Board games alter your hormones

  • Samsy@lemmy.ml
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    Isn’t that the guy from Bames Jond?

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      No, it’s a neurologist that specializes in diagnosis but made a typo when he signed up for internet sites.

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    Maybe being into board games is the default state and monogamists have a board game deficit

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    Easier & enough people are the same thing.

    Much like two of the thruple having sex with me is just as easy as me creating my own thruple.

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    having tried board games and such, I can confirm that the straight hetro male nerds did not in fact lead to a poly love heap.

    • bdonvr@thelemmy.club
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      Skill issue

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    I did poly for a long time and wasn’t that into board games. But yeah a lot of poly people are into them.

    I’m more into tabletop RPGs, but never achieved the dream of a polycule party.

    Nowadays I wouldn’t even recommend crossing the streams that way.

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      Depending on how broad definitions we run by, then board game can be synonymous with tabletop. Especially for the uninitiated

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    It’s really just about finding groups of people who can show up on time and stay focused for 1-3 hours, depending.

    • snoons@lemmy.ca
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      So OOP is basically experiencing sexy survivors bias?

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    It’s how they figure out who gets to sleep with who

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Roll for initiative.

    • Maiq@piefed.zip
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      Twister covered in baby oil, the ultimate in poly foreplay.

      • 𝙈𝙞𝙖@quokk.au
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        That sounds fun?

        • ByteJunk@lemmy.world
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          At my age, that sounds very hazardous.

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      Whom

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        It’s how they figure out whom gets to sleep with who.

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        Objectify my polycule pronouns again daddy

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        depends on who wins and who loses the board game

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    But is every huge board game nerd you’ve met poly?


    FWIW, I know several board game nerds and one person who is poly, but AFAIK none of them are into the other thing.

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    I was into boardgames way before I knew I was poly.

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    I think they cum together 😉

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