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VetOfTheSeas@discuss.online to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 19 hours ago

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VetOfTheSeas@discuss.online to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 19 hours ago
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  • BaraCoded@literature.cafe
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    Welcome to the closeted life, and yes it is hell, and yes it demands tremendous amounts of resilience, and even then you won’t go unscathed because masking always leaves alienating scars on the mind.

    So yeah, fuck fascism, fuck religion, fuck the straightarchy in general.

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    10 hours ago

    Fun fact: My twins and her twins are the same age!

  • MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca
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    Heck, I’m tempted to drop that in conversations nowadays despite never having been in the same room as Elvira.

  • alk@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    19 hours ago

    I’m not sure who Elvira is. Maybe this is why she didn’t.

    • DagwoodIII@piefed.social
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      image

    • AcidBurn@retrofed.com
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      18 hours ago

      Elvira, Mistress of the Dark, a gay icon even before she came out

    • Stern@lemmy.world
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      19 hours ago

      The original goth baddie

      • square@lemmy.zip
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        10 hours ago

        How dare you disrespect Carolyn Jones like that!

  • edinbruh@feddit.it
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    19 hours ago

    Who is Elvira?

    • Setiyeti93@lemmy.ca
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      19 hours ago

      An icon of her time OG. But the G stands for goth.

      • dustycups@aussie.zone
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        18 hours ago

        Spectacularly accurate answer.

    • unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de
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      18 hours ago

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cassandra_Peterson

      • gen/Eric Computers@lemmy.zip
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        9 hours ago

        She’s 74‽ She looks fantastic :⁠-⁠O

      • lath@piefed.social
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        18 hours ago

        Cassandra Gay Peterson

        Spouse Mark Pierson (m. 1981; div. 2003)

        Partner Teresa Wierson (2002–present)

        Are we sure her husband didn’t transition?

        • garbagebagel@lemmy.world
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          Trying not to get into transgestigation territory, but her husband was significantly taller than current partner.

          Sidenote: they are all very good looking people, I never imagined that Elvira is a redhead irl

        • Midnitte@beehaw.org
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          Probably separated from her husband earlier than 2003 and began dating Teresa prior to divorce.

          Divorce can take a significant amount of time (have a friend who separated, started dating another person, got pregnant, and gave birth before the divorce was complete).

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          I suppose div.2003 stands for divorce, plus the two timespans overlap, so it wouldn’t make sense

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            Yeah, because a woman has never continued pretending to be a man in some situations while openly identifying as a woman in others for the sake of safety or convenience. So anyone spending any effort investigating that would be wasting their time.

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              Considering the date (23 years ago) and the fact that it’s on wikipedia, I think if that were the case it would be written differently, then again no wikipedia page for either name so please do research and tell me if I’m wrong

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      15 hours ago

      Elvira: Mistress of the Dark | Official Trailer

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    19 hours ago

    I love sharing how proud I am of my partner, I don’t think I could ever keep my trap shut if I could turn Elvira’s head

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    This happened in 2021, btw. Unless we’re talking about some character-coming-out instead of the actress.

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    19 hours ago

    BEHOLD. My girlfriend.

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    Some of us like our privacy.
    I know a Nazi blue check wouldn’t know anything about that.

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