Yeah, I think I did the right thing though, Czech police is fine… but still, it was such distress to her that getting reminded of it got her to delete the account.

To avoid duplicates: this has been discussed in another thread:

Last comment: https://sh.itjust.works/comment/27946363
Parent comment, home instance: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/22601252

She just confirmed she’s fine. The troubles* she or someone she cares about is having are not as bad as it seemed when she first described them.

* Edit: this is the situation in question

Hey I know we don’t know each other but from everything I’ve seen from your posts I think you’re wonderful and are being too harsh on yourself. Transfems are regularly pressured into silencing themselves and to make themselves smaller for other people’s comfort. I hope things get better for you and that you can experience more moments of joy like you brought to us with your presence.

Girl, I love you and love your contribution to this community.

Hey girl, I’m just a random soul lurking around without posting (this is actually my first comment here) but I wanted to say that I really enjoyed your posts.

I know life can be a bitch and everything can seem dark. I just wanted to put my little stone here and say that a random trans girl likes what you did, the joy you bring here and maybe a little touch of chaos too ;)

Be yourself, that’s the most important and take all the time you need to feel better!

Love from a stranger <3

Stay silly. o7

Misha, sis. I wish I could lift this veil in front of your eyes and make you see how much life and humanity you breath into the community. People who want clean and readable feeds can go fly a kite, this isn’t a billionaire-owned newsroom. This is a place shock full of queer, messy, flawed, amazing, radiant people and there’s a seat with your name on it. I hope I’ll see you wreck this feed silly many times again. Whatever you ultimately decide, take care of yourself.

NOOOOOOOO

Nah but for real (just for your general fund of information) I’ve enjoyed all your posts; your memes bang, and I hope you’re doing alright. Truly, if people on Lemmy wanted something sanitized, then they should’ve stayed in the padded, corporate white walls of Reddit, and if someone doesn’t like your content, then they can damn well block you. It’s barely even an inconvenience.

It isn’t obnoxious for you to live your truth, nor to post about it. It isn’t arrogant to be known, nor to be missed, which you will be.

Everyone enjoys you here, Miisha. I’m glad this trouble in your life right now* is not as serious as I thought and I hope you’ll be back doing what folks loved you for. You don’t need to post that often either: do what’s comfortable and sustainable.

* Edit: this is the situation in question

Hi Miisha,

You are loved here. Its ok, you have done nothing wrong. Its ok. Its ok. Its ok.

Hey, love, I barely know you, but I wanted to let you know that my impressions of you have been nothing but positive.

Now stop bein so mean to our friend (you) ❤️

come back if/when you are ready, but if it isn’t good for your mental health, please prioritize and take care of yourself.

Miisha I dont know you, but, through seeing your interactions with others and your amazing meme dump. I even stalked your page for more memes. I promise, you are being too hard on yourself babes. We all love you here.

As someone currently learning more about herself, seeing your posts has been nothing but sunshine these last few days! The world is full of haters, I’m so sorry people are pushing you to think that you’ve been doing something wrong.

Hey fuck off.

My pretentious support of women’s rights while spewing blatant misogyny, erasing the experiences of non-trans gender-nonconforming people, spreading right-wing propaganda, absolutely annoying people who just want clean and readable feeds, basically forcing my obnoxious personality into every nook and cranny of this place.

That’s not what Miisha was doing.

Miisha, we love you we care about you. Its a relief to hear you’re doing all right. I love your posts, and your self assessment is very off base. It may have been a little too much all at once, but we love having you here.

Given the state of the world, I get very worried when trans people disappear without explanation. You don’t have to stay here if this community is not best for you, but if you leave please at least leave a note saying you’re fine. I don’t want to have to worry about you but I can’t help it.

Love, you’re in no way what you describe here, not to me and likely not to many others here.

While I would gladly go to sleep to never wake up again, I enjoy interacting with you and your posts.

Sis, you’re loved, you can get to your lovely otter for ears, hugs and paws.

Haters gonna hate tbh. Any time you put yourself out there. I enjoyed your manic posting spree. People burn accounts for worse reasons though so o7

Woah wtf? Sis you okay?

I got no vibes of right wing propaganda (unless I missed something??). You’re just, for lack of a way to put it, blazingly, unapologetically heterosexual lol.

Just bc most Lemmy posters lean LGB, doesn’t mean you sharing your POV is an offense :( from what I’ve seen you’ve been nothing but super sweet and refreshingly candid. You’re not obligated to stay here ofc but I do hope you find some joy whatever you decide. Please don’t feel apologetic for being you! /gen /pos

The internet can be a crappy place, and you gotta take care of you. All I ever saw was somebody trying to work on being the best self they could be. Hope you get there. We’re cheering for you.

Ngl, I’ve been to a psych ward for lesser problems, and it was a rather uncomfortable but quite effective way to resolve the pressing issues, but there are several more or less legitimate reasons she doesn’t want to go, or would use her free will to leave. Caring for her BF with a vertebrae fracture, for example…

Anyway, if you want help with a list…

• Blåhaj or other emotional support plushie
• MP3 player (no video playback or games) or pocket radio
  • ideally rechargeable from USB-A without a cable, otherwise it can only be recharged at the nurse office; puny wired headphones are allowed; non-rechargeable models may be problematic due to springs in the battery compartment but those can be cut and replaced with sheet metal alternatives or even something like aluminium foil ball if need be
• Hobby supplies
  • see if you have a hobby you’ve maybe “grown out of” or put on hold that can be done within the institution’s restrictions (low-tech, no ropes, wires, sharp edges or heavy blunt objects). Reading, writing, drawing etc. you mentioned but there can be other options like Rubik’s cube, large jigsaw puzzles, origami, or making elastic band bracelets, all of which were enjoyed at the teens’ clinic I stayed at. There was a piano and a then-recent offline games console available during some hours, too. Under staff supervision, there are more options: pencils can be sharpened, devices with cables charged and paper model outlines cut out, for example.

BTW “crayons” in Europe usually refers to colored pencils, allowed in the low-security department I stayed at. There are other options that don’t get dangerously sharp: wax crayons (eww), color-core-in-thin-plastic-coating (once made by Progresso, not sure about modern alternatives), or Koh-i-noor art set with hexagonal translucent plastic shells and all-plastic advancing mechanism.

45 minutes ago, she said it’s not as serious as previously thought. She’s in a sad and inconvenient situation but not in danger, and neither is any person close to her from what I understand.

I’ll leave her to fill in the details if she wants to… her other account is @McUberStein@lemmy.zip.

Edit: she did